Humor is a good way to lighten the mood of a narrative during scenes filled with darkness and intensity, and a nice dose of it is a great addition to any story. As Masello says, "...it's the leavening agent that can lighten up even the heaviest material." But not everyone is born with a sense of humor. So, if humor lacks from the individual, it shouldn't be forced into print. Whatever is trying to be written as funny by the humorless writer, might come off as sounding stiff and unnatural to the reading, or viewing audience.
F. Scott Fitzgerald was hired as one of many writers to transform Gone With the Wind into a screenplay. What I just learned recently, from the GWTW But Not Forgotten Facebook Page, was that he was let go because he couldn't make Aunt Pittypat sound funny! Who can ever forget Aunt Pittypat riding off during the explosions, as the Yankees are approaching to attack Atlanta? Flabbergasted and flustered she yells, "Uncle Peter, my smelling salts..."
Some people are naturally funny. Those that are tend to be laid back and don't take themselves too seriously. They can see the humor even in serious situations, and are usually optimistic.
But it takes more than funny people to make the world go around. Those who aren't funny sometimes tend to be more serious, tense, critical and pessimistic. If you've ever said to someone (or someone has said to you), "You have no sense of humor," and you've gotten a reaction like this (or you've reacted this way, after angrily slamming down a fist), "I DO SO have a sense of humor,"chances are, that person (or you) may very well not. But that's okay, not everyone is born with the humor gene.
Now, if you're a funny person and a writer, and you have a humorless friend who's a writer, too, let him know you'd be happy to help infuse a little humor into his narrative, if he's at all interested. Even if he claims there's plenty of funny stuff he's already written, offer to read it and see if it sounds funny to you. If someone has to stretch and strain to be funny, and what's written is beyond their "comfort zone," that can be some pretty painful reading.
Do you or don't you have a sense of humor?
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